Siding with your abuser

Have you ever taken sides with an enemy with (what you think) is a noble purpose? That is, you think you can save somebody if you just go along with the abuser in your life? That's the mistake Lewis made; that's the mistake a lot of us make. Sometimes we don't have any other choice!


Lewis knew what was going to happen and what he should do. I'll go to Moorway. I'll join the Horned Edge. I'll excel and earn Charon's favor. And then - I'll take Barth's place at Lord Charon's right hand. And then - I'll rescue Patrick and Gracie and take us back to Earth. With one last flash of humor before switching sides, he labelled the moment of decision: "The Day I Became Anti-Matter."


After that, all humor was gone. He was no longer on the side of the angels, presuming that such entities existed. (p.318)


I highly recommend that you do NOT try to protect someone else by letting another person beat up on you. But I know that sometimes that appears to be the only choice at hand, and we just have to wait until a better choice opens up to us.


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